On Formal Dinner nights at HPA, the dining hall transforms into something more than a place to eat — it becomes a space for connection, reflection, and community.
From the perfectly set tables to the hum of conversation and laughter, these evenings have long been a cherished tradition for the boarding community, offering students and staff a moment to slow down and come together.
For Christophe Ticarro, director of dining services for FLIK Independent School Dining, Formal Dinner represents one of the most meaningful parts of campus life.
“I think for me, one of the most special things that we do here on campus is our Formal Dinners for the boarding community,” Ticarro said. “What makes it so special is the interaction between the student body and our FLIK team — exposing the students to a professional work environment, especially a kitchen — and to see what it all entails to feed the population here at HPA. I think that is one of the most endearing, special things that we can show them: what we do for a living and how it translates to a happy face.”
That spirit of connection is echoed by the students who gather for each Formal Dinner. For many, it’s about more than the meal itself.
“What Formal Dinner means to me is connectedness, meeting new people. Really just enjoying HPA, learning more about the community and eating great food,” Valeria G. ‘26 said.
For others, the evening represents excitement and anticipation.
“I’ve loved dressing up since I was a little girl, and it’s such a fun way to do it as a teenager, being around my friends and new people that I might not know yet,” Sage M. ‘26.
And of course, it’s just plain fun.
“I think Formal Dinner is really fun because you get to socialize with other people, dress up, and eat some good food,” Josh C. ‘27 said.
Whether it’s a student’s first Formal Dinner or their final one before graduation, the experience captures what it means to live and learn together at HPA — sharing good food, good company, and timeless traditions that make the community stronger with every gathering.
This story originally appeared in the HPA Boarding Report. Read the full issue here.